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    naivedude Posts: 29, Reputation: 1
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    May 28, 2008, 03:00 PM
    Letting the ex know.
    INDIRECTLY...
    I really want her back but I'm forced to move on... she broke up with me. Two months ago she would have married me and now she won't even speak to me. I wrote her 2 emails saying I wanted to marry also and showed her pictures of the ring proving my intentions... I am doing no contact but she still gets updates on me through picture websites and such. Well, I am doing my best to actually move on and go places and see different people. I've met some nice new girls and I realize there is a big world out there but it doesn't help me move on from the one I loved. My question is, should I let her know INDIRECTLY that I am enjoying myself AND/OR meeting other girls? I won't call or text her directly, but I can put up photos of places I've been going, like vacation travel, and there's a couple girls in there... I don't want to manipulate or make her jealous but I do want her to realize what she lost.

    Is that sending the wrong message?? I don't want her to hate me because she thinks I moved on so quick but hek I know she's doing her new roommate... what do I do? Help
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    May 28, 2008, 03:47 PM
    I don't want to manipulate or make her jealous but I do want her to realize what she lost.
    Can't you see that is exactly what your doing in a DESPERATE effort to get her back, and she is long gone and busy zooming some other dude.
    What do I do? Help
    Follow the advice you've already gotten and move on.
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    losingit77 Posts: 105, Reputation: 31
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    May 28, 2008, 04:10 PM
    If you want to try to let her know that you're moving on, than you're not really moving on and she'll see right through it.

    Focus on yourself and your life without her in it. Do NC. Silence speaks volumes.

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