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Gambino is absolutely right... you do NOT deserve this... I would even venture to say the reason he doesn't want you to talk to any of the neighbors is because you would learn the TRUTH about him......

Ok. I know you have had this discussion before but nothing changed, so how about having this discussion again but this time, make a list of specific things you would like to do alone or specific...

You spend every possible minute that you can scratch up with her because you love being with her but... you never have personal time for yourself or to do something with your friends...

But then...

Listen to the "experts".

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I think you need to ask yourself why after all this time you feel it necessary to tell him?. what has happened to bring this on?

You say you don't know how this got so out of control... what is...

The ladies above are right...

1. Do you want a JERK for a boyfriend? He will just hurt you more than he is hurting you now...
2. RESPECT YOURSELF.. You ARE worth more than that and you should...

Very good response... very wise...

I just read and responded to your other post... and now I see the "rest" of the story... if you are interested in this new girl, do the right thing and end it with the soon-to-be-ex... and as far as...

Sorry nycityliving, but I smell a rat... I am in a relationship and see this person every day... for very long periods, and there is NO WAY I would want to seek another male "friend"... I HAVE a male...

I think you misunderstood me Dare... I don't listen to the polls either way... and you really have no idea who I am or what I believe in or even who I voted for, so how can you classify me as one of...

The polls have too many variables in them... who cares what they say...

Oooops, my bad, <looking at my hand>... Ohhhhh the INDEX finger..!. lol... :p

Man, doesn't this guy have any respect for himself? Why would a guy make himself out to look so desperate?. That would...

First of all, let me say, that her Dad and brother would be anough to scare ME away... lol...

2nd- Yes, you are right, if he keeps popping up, you need to call the authorities... now, he seems...

One way to get her to read your e-mail is to put in the subject line what you want to say... keep it very brief so it won't be cut off...

Like: I was wrong... sorry...

If your husband finds out that you knew about this and didn't tell him, he may lose respect for you. My husband did this to me, and I felt like he placed his friend over me, his wife. That act hurt...

This "guy" bothers me... something inside of me doesn't like the fact that he won't go away... and when you responded with that note on Facebook, you added fuel to the fire...

1. MAKE SURE your...

I am so sorry for your loss...

How about... "Thank you, everyone, for all your thoughts and prayers. Though my heart is heavy with sadness, it's comforting to know I have friends that I can turn...

Gambino is getting gooooood... I agree with him AGAIN.. lol

You BOTH need to ignore him and he should go away... writing to him on Facebook just gave him a thrill... do "NO CONTACT"!. if he still...

First let me say, relax about YOUR first child... the child of two people who love each other and are together, will not suffer... he will be the love of your husband's life... you two will get to go...

Sounds to me like the two of you have a lot of issues to work out. His jealousy and your frustrations with life... unless you two seek counseling and can work these issues out, I don't see anything...

And then unfortunately, the men in their lives don't understand why the woman goes on this roller coaster ride, cries for no reason, gets angry, has no libido, etc, etc, etc... makes me want to...

Well, if he said he would go to a counselor, then I would definitely seek one out... and don't wait...

And I'm glad to finally meet someone who knows about this and shares the knowledge... I didn't put two and two together when I read the problem above... so glad YOU did... :D

That's good that you can see that so clearly... good luck... hope things work out in the best possible way for you...

You can always come back online here and help others with their difficulties too... that's how I ended up here... I had a "situation"... and staying here and helping others has helped me stay on...

Wow <sniff sniff>... that was kind of harsh wasn't it?. wait a minute... that's why I don't usually agree with you... 'cause I think you are kind of HARSH... lol... be nice Gambino... I have extra...

He is DEFINITELY right... hormone levels in women fluctuate and need to be balanced and tested at LEAST once a year... even at a young age... if your hormones are out of balance, lack of sex drive is...

In my opinion, your loyalty should lie with your husband... I would NEVER keep anything from him... he is your PARTNER for life!

Usually I don't agree with Gambino, sorry... fellow Texan.. lol... but this time I think he is right... I think both of you need to back away from each other for a while and see what you REALLY...

Do you think going to a counselor would work? Considering now, that maybe you have been pushing him away a little from all the stress? Sounds a little to me like he is willing to try since he's...

He apparently is interested enough in this other girl to change his feelings for you... so I would say, separate for a while, maybe go to a counselor if he would agree, but you can't sit and wait for...

Hon, if this guy can't tell you he loves YOU, then maybe you should leave, or tell HIM to leave, until he can... to let him keep you in limbo is wrong...

Depends on your cell phone, and I am assuming you are talking about e-mails or text messages... I have a Motorola Razr and I cannot attach ANYTHING to it... I have to type all my messages onto my...

This is a hard call... he works with this girl... so it's going to be hard to know whether he is doing anything behind your back or not... I think you need to sit down with him, calmly, and discuss...

Gee, the kind of guy EVERY girl wants... NOT! :rolleyes:

I don't want to get involved, you guys/gals are WAY above my head on this, but I CAN tell you this... RUSH DOES NOT RUN THE REPUBLICAN PARTY! Just saying... :D

Talent baby... lol...

And hey, wouldn't you be yelling if you had to do that for a week EVERY MONTH too?

3 days? Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha... :D

Oh, the joys of what is to come... lol... :p

Naw, she may appreciate the thought because clean ups can be awfully time consuming and expensive... :D

Gee wiz... good luck with that!. :D

It's easy to get overwhelmed taking care of 5 children with a finance on the road all the time... and having to deal with a wedding too... which should be one of the happiest days in your life......

Chuff is right...

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chuff agrees:... As Always.<<<<<<HEY! Can you do that?! Lmaoooooo:D

Chuff is right...

Naw... we just want all your attention... that's all... ;)

I know this is going to be hard, but I think you need to back off, give her time, and MAYBE she will let you know what happened... going to her friends for answers won't help... because you don't...

I agree with Gemini...

I am feeling a different vib here... you were having sex, then about a month ago he stops having sex with you, but he continued RECEIVING oral from you on a daily basis... but now he wants to end the...

I am not an expert on this, but if your parents have visitation, why are you not able to see your daughter while she is with them?

Yes, he can file for child support from you as the mother and I...

Lol... this is hilarious! But, hey all you guys, I don't stick to all of them... just most... lol...