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Ok, been a while ;) need a few views if anyone has any.

After going total NC from the start of March I turned up at staff training (lifeguard training is a compulsory element of the job) at my and...

There is a backlog but I have managed ti get a flight tio paris, booked a eurotunnel too. My uncle is getting married Saturday, he's like the best guy in the world and had so much his wife died of...

How well thought out my plan for moving continent - almost certainly a big reaction to the realisation that I will probably be somewhere near to her again and the thought of that hurts like hell :(
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So, it happened, the girl I loved more than anyone or anything before broke my heart. I got the similar sort of excuses "need to find myself" etc blah blah but in truth there was a...

You sound kind of young - don't get me wrong, Im not trying to belittle or patronise - there are so many reasons to be glad that you are rid of this former boyfriend...

What an immature idiot?...

I feel like you have had a burden lifted from you :) discovering the person she really is and has been when with you. Its sort of easier to move along now! Score!

Why bother letting her know that...

I want to spend some time being single... I have been in big relationships for the best part of six years now without a break bigger than maybe two months... Its time to work on me. Im guna forget...

I had the same thing a few weeks back. Same length of relationship, I saw signs that stuff was up though. The texts, the emails, stuff *changed*... She used to be paranoid about me falling for other...

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I have another post I wrote just yesterday which explains my situation but today I have sort of come to my senses in respect that the girl I was with has totally taken me...

Could be that she has someone new on the scene... She feels real bad because you're a good guy and she doesn't want to hurt you because she does still care for you. But if there is no other...

Him saying he felt unattractive and wanted to see if he got a response?

So maybe - MAYBE - you could buy it if he sent pictures of himself, but of his privates! As a guy, if you are having issues...

Its not for a few months so you will probably read a little more of my journey to recovery before then! Going to Fiji the morrow though so won't be posting for a while. Have to write letters instead...

I reckon you are doing well Newguy, I had the "want to find myself" bull too from my girl. No courage, no respect for the person you shared a relationship with :(

But you are out of it now. Keep...

Seeing as I am and haven't ever been great with learning languages then yea, I'm thinking its guna be kind of tough!

Great distraction if I feel rubbish still though.

Feeling perky today...

Im headed to Beijing in July for a month now. That's something to look forward to, if the girl had taken me back I wouldn't have gone. I couldn't leave her again I told myself.

But hey, I do love...

Don't want to be an awesome guy to another girl...

Just soooooooo frustrating! I asked and asked and asked about this new guy writing on her wall on Facebook, "No, we are just friends" "Trust me...

I do hold the memories close! I also try and concentrate on the bad aspects, of which, there really aren't any I can think of. I don't say that without giving it good consideration, I do think I...

Its true chickie, I do love who she used to be. I guess I don't really know who she is right now... Curiosity leads me to want to find out though! However, as I read elsewhere, curiosity killed the...

Im in a real similar position with a girl back in the UK. You can't help the way you feel, nobody can. That's a sad fact. As the people say, just got to lift your head up, crack on.

Sounds so...

Im in such an emotional rollercoaster! Discovered this site and was like "wow! My saviour on a website!!"... It really helped because although I knew that I was neevr going to be the first person in...

It is possible that he got scared of the commitment and what it meant. If so, he probably isnt/wasnt as in to you as you are/were to him.

If he wants to be with you, but can't right now, you could...

I agree with Carrot,

If you have already tried to diplomatically talk to one of the people you are closest to in the world - that being your boyfriend - and he can't provide you with good reasons...

That's a great reply and I appreciate it :) I would love so much to move on and my heart to not feel what it currently feels you know?

But that's the thing with the heart, it does what it wants!...

Rome,

Been really hurting for the last few weeks but this post is simply fantastic. Thank you :)

I have never written on one of these sites before - I don't even know if there are many of them around? What I do know is that despite my best attempts to occupy myself and try and distract myself, I...