Almost 3 months we've been together, and things are really going well. We don't fight, she's falling for me. I sent her mom a message telling her happy birthday and she said "thanks for making my daughter happy!", she is no longer and contact with her ex, she's only focused on me right now and I couldn't be happier, I'm just a little scared that she's projecting her feelings for him on me, even though I'm trying really hard to make her happy. She still loves her ex but doesn't talk about him, I don't want to get hurt... I'm really really falling for this girl

Good Luck dude! I'm glad your happy and she's happy. It is hard to stop caring about someone, so hopefully she isn't projecting her feelings of him onto you. Hopefully she likes you for you completely separately from the ex. It is good that they aren't talking. If she does start to talk to him again - watch out.

The last thing you need is to be insecure and doubting yourself. Enjoy this as much as you can and show her she made a good choice. That's what all the risks are all about.

If you worry about getting hurt, you probably will because you can't give it all you got. Your better than that.