Yeah texting is a great way to not come off as to heavy... Since it has been a month I don't see anything wrong with playing catch up. But if he responds just don't read too much into it.

I say don't live with any regrets! If it is possible that you may regret NOT texting him, than do it. But if you feel that you can live by letting him go, than he isn't as important to you as you think. :o

Yeah just send him a message asking how you doing? Or what's up? Or miss talking to you.

Well I sent him a text just saying "hi there, how's it going" and all I got was 'hey,it's going" MAN! Men suck - seriously! For someone who told me how much they could see me in their life in some form etc etc, that i'm such a cool person to know blah blah, you know the deal ladies. . He could have at least replied, "how are things with you?" I wasn't going to bite! I don't think I will ever understand how men can have such low common courtesy to one day court a girl and have all these feelings invested and then bamb! Overnight sh-it changes. Like they don't want to have anything to do with you ever again. It was my last and only attempt to reach out in a platonic way. And no, I don't regret it, I have it in my head that he is total asswhole, where before I was hanging onto this hope of being friends, but now I'm over it all together. It takes two to tango. I just had to vent! Haha One day hopefully he will look back, or run into me while I'm looking fab, and totally regret it.

Guy's do tend to do this a lot... what's up with that!

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Guy's do tend to do this a lot... what's up with that!

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Honestly I think their man egos are afraid of us asking to hang out or something along those lines when really all I wanted to do was keep things cool with him. But it's like okay if that's all you are going to say to me, then I'm taking the big hint you really don't want to have anything to do with me, which really means you are a LIAR and it's probably best things happened the way they did! Haha

Time to back way, way off and start getting over him. You've spent a lot of time and energy on this, and its time to be done.

Will you ever be friends again? I'm on friendly terms with an ex, but I had to get away from her for a year or so and I had to move on.

Its only been a month. Even if he cut it off, doesn't mean its all that in the past for him either.

Stop spending time trying to get into his head. Let yourself be lonely and frustrated. Then get pi$$ed and distance yourself. If you are going to be friends, it's a long way off.

Well, you gave him an opening to show what kind of friend he would be to you & he did just that. Now it will be easier for you to move on to someone that will care how YOU are doing & act that way. They are out there & finalizing your grief over this situation will open your life to the better possibilities waiting for you ahead.

Many people think we only have one soulmate, that's not true. A soulmate is someone special who touches your heart, mind, body & soul in special ways but not all of them are going to or even meants be lfietime ones, some will be there only for a season.

You are not leaving behind the only soulmate that would enhance your life until the end of it or support & encourage you to be the best you can be. Instead, you are now available for the one that could be the lifelong one that would not have been able to make his presence known as long as you were attached to his one. Even if only mentally the way you were before you sent that text. You know can free yourself from what doesn't work in order to make room for what will in an intimate relationship where you can cherish & be cherished properly.

Good Luck!