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  • Aug 9, 2012, 08:23 PM
    monsieurjj
    Take this as a learning experience my friend it didn't kill you right it will only make you stronger
  • Aug 10, 2012, 09:17 PM
    johannsson35
    Just out of curiosity.. is anyone still keeping up with this thread?
  • Aug 13, 2012, 02:35 PM
    johannsson35
    So far so good. She hasn't contacted me at all. I haven't tried to contact her either. I'm 99% sure she's not coming back. She doesn't want me, and that's her loose not mine. Also a friend of mine told me that she might come back wanting to sleep with me? She wouldn't. She would never do that, I'm nothing to her. She'd just sleep with her other friends.
  • Aug 13, 2012, 03:00 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by johannsson35 View Post
    So far so good. She hasn't contacted me at all. I haven't tried to contact her either. I'm 99% sure she's not coming back. She doesn't want me, and that's her loose not mine. Also a friend of mine told me that she might come back wanting to sleep with me? She wouldn't. She would never do that, I'm nothing to her. She'd just sleep with her other friends.


    Now I'm confused. You wanted her back, right?

    But now she's sleeping with her other friends, which sounds like a slam at her.

    ?
  • Aug 13, 2012, 03:41 PM
    johannsson35
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Now I'm confused. You wanted her back, right?

    But now she's sleeping with her other friends, which sounds like a slam at her.

    ??

    Sorry if I wasn't clear. No, I don't want her back. She's lost all respect from me. What I meant is that a friend told me she might come back and beg for me to sleep with her so that can she can earn my trust/friendship back. I guess this could happen.. but I severely doubt it. She has A LOT of other friends to replace me as her boy toy, etc..
    P.S. Her and I had ABSOLUTELY no sexual contact. Anyway, I haven't heard from her since Thursday. So I guess I'm in the clear! :)
  • Aug 16, 2012, 10:54 AM
    johannsson35
    So... it's been a week now and NO CONTACT what's so ever! I haven't even attempted to contact her, even though I thought about it, I didn't! I haven't heard from her AT ALL either so that's good too! I guess she finally realized she was treating me like a *****, so she gave up. I'm sure by now she's found somebody to replace me! :P
  • Aug 16, 2012, 10:56 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by johannsson35 View Post
    So... it's been a week now and NO CONTACT what's so ever! I haven't even attempted to contact her, even though I thought about it, I didn't! I haven't heard from her AT ALL either so that's good too! I guess she finally realized she was treating me like a *****, so she gave up. I'm sure by now she's found somebody to replace me! :P


    You say you don't care BUT you also post that she's found someone else. Why do you care?
  • Aug 16, 2012, 11:23 AM
    odinn7
    Let go... it's the best thing for you. Stop worrying about what she's doing and with who. Other than that, you seem to be doing pretty good so keep it up.
  • Aug 16, 2012, 11:35 AM
    johannsson35
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    You say you don't care BUT you also post that she's found someone else. Why do you care?

    Again: what I meant is that she's found some other loser to replace me as her boytoy, what ever you'd like to call it. Because of that she WON'T come back, so I don't have to deal with her at all.
  • Aug 16, 2012, 12:05 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by johannsson35 View Post
    Again: what I meant is that she's found some other loser to replace me as her boytoy, what ever you'd like to call it. Because of that she WON'T come back, so I don't have to deal with her at all.


    If you were, in fact, done you wouldn't care enough to spend the time and energy posting this.
  • Aug 16, 2012, 10:04 PM
    talaniman
    Maybe that's the best thing that could happen to you.
  • Mar 24, 2013, 04:26 AM
    Docuser234
    Its been a year, anything change?
  • Mar 24, 2013, 04:45 AM
    talaniman
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...hy-701821.html

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