The relationship I had with my ex was something I thought was great and could work but after 6 months things went all wrong as he started to hit me. This happen about 8 times and I just couldn't take it any more so I just left.

I console in my best friend for 9 years about it and he was mad about him hitting me. My best friend and I have feelings for each other but only came close to a relationship with each other only once but we ended it as we thought we are like brothers and sisters.

After the incident and I console in him, 4 months after we started dating (no sex up to now as we've been together now for 6 months) and I'm really comfortable.

The thing is my ex won't stop calling me begging me to come back, saying all sorts of stuffs for me to feel bad about myself and all this is driving me crazy as I can't cope with the sort of things he's doing to me. With this I can't seem to move on with my new relationship as all I want to do his to move on and be happy.

I'm mow 21 and this is my second relationship so I'm really confused. At times its like my head is going to explode as I want to move on but my ex and his friends are driving me crazy and I don't want to tell my boyfriend about that part.

Once a hitter always a hitter and it will continue escalating. If he is harassing you get an order of protection before you become a statistic.

I do believe it would have gotten worst but I'm scared if I report him his friends would do me something. He's my age and all but to him life doesn't have any meaning anymore.

This is the type of person you should be afraid of because he has nothing to loose. Cantact the police now.