My daughter is 30 years old and has lived on her own for over 10 years. She has owned her own home for 10 years. She is getting married in June and she and her fiancé had their wedding arrangements and plans all made when they announced their engagement to the family. Her father and I have been divorced for over 10 years. Should I expect to have to pay for her wedding gown? Neither her father or I were asked if we would like to invite anyone to the wedding. We have been told that they are planning their own wedding and paying for it. I wanted to give my daughter a shower, however, she said she only wanted one big shower and she has told her bridesmaids what she wants and has given them the list of persons she wants invited.