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  • Aug 13, 2014, 08:17 PM
    paraclete
    The war on men!
    Sometime ago in AMHD timescale we had repeated allegations there was a war on women now there is positive evidence of a war on MEN

    MyPlates' 'Man proof your car' ads receive complaints for men picking their nose | Mail Online

    I'm wondering how long it will take for the counter movement to begin, I mean it isn't just the ute or the pickup which is inviolate but we have to strike back hard otherwise we might have to yield the remote, and settle for chardonnay instead of beer. The first blows might have already been struck when on the Block, a TV renovation program, when female contestants could not drive the vehicles provided, unable to stickshift, the mental labour was too much for their tiny brains
  • Aug 14, 2014, 02:27 AM
    NeedKarma
    Haha! From the comments section:

    "...those who were offended were not in the company's target market anyway" - Great statement.
  • Aug 14, 2014, 05:39 AM
    paraclete
    No, it's obvious what the target market is, around here we call them bogans
  • Aug 14, 2014, 08:18 AM
    tomder55
    mass media has been belittling and emasculating men for years.
  • Aug 14, 2014, 03:27 PM
    paraclete
    Not just mass media Tom
  • Aug 14, 2014, 04:10 PM
    tomder55
    ok popular culture too
  • Aug 14, 2014, 06:53 PM
    paraclete
    Yes aren't you fed up with the portrail of Fathers as uncaring D**heads or just plain dills
  • Aug 14, 2014, 07:22 PM
    tomder55
    yes ;the foil ,the dolt ,the one that has to learn life lessons from their children .
  • Aug 14, 2014, 08:41 PM
    paraclete
    Yes the only life lesson I've learned from my children is how bloody minded and selfish they can be
  • Aug 15, 2014, 02:11 AM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Yes the only life lesson I've learned from my children is how bloody minded and selfish they can be
    My experience is the opposite.
  • Aug 15, 2014, 05:50 AM
    paraclete
    You are extremely fortunate
  • Aug 15, 2014, 05:58 AM
    NeedKarma
    I know I am, however I like to think I had a hand in that good fortune.
  • Aug 15, 2014, 06:09 AM
    paraclete
    You can't always control these things
  • Aug 15, 2014, 06:37 AM
    talaniman
    You can't control anything or anyone. Hell you barely have control over yourself. You can control the TV with a remote though.
  • Aug 15, 2014, 02:37 PM
    cdad
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by paraclete View Post
    Yes aren't you fed up with the portrail of Fathers as uncaring D**heads or just plain dills



    I fought that war and won. I got an ad removed from a major company from ever airing again. It is bad enough that the courts (here in America) have an automatic sentence for divorcing dads that have children. It is part of the feminizing going on. We cant even let children play because of hurt feelings. We have lost sight of coping skills in our youth today because of the seperation and prevalence of divorce.
  • Aug 15, 2014, 03:16 PM
    paraclete
    Yes Dad I agree divorce has a devastating impact on family and children and should be a last resort, not the first but what can you do in a me society, children aren't taken into account
  • Aug 15, 2014, 05:16 PM
    cdad
    In some respects (atleast here) they have made divorce too easy. If a couple has children then there should be a mandatory waiting period and couseling provided there hasnt been violence in the home. That way there can be a cooling off and healing period if needed.
  • Aug 16, 2014, 05:25 AM
    paraclete
    Yes all for that, the mandatory part, anyway because once the process starts getting the other party into counselling is very difficult
  • Aug 16, 2014, 11:45 AM
    cdad
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by paraclete View Post
    Yes all for that, the mandatory part, anyway because once the process starts getting the other party into counselling is very difficult



    That is why you would make it mandatory. That way if the other party wishs to refuse it they can but then why should they have the children if they arent going to co operate with the other parent in raising them. It is just one of the early signs that the children are headed for a troubled youth if the parents cant co operate.
  • Aug 16, 2014, 11:57 AM
    talaniman
    Who pay for all that counseling, and what of those that cohabitate instead of marry? What happens to the kids if counseling doesn't work but just delays the inevitable? It may be easier to get a divorce, but divorce is no easy thing to go through.

    Nice theory, but I believe just one symptom of crumbling, failed institutions. Half of marriages failing has been a reality before they made divorces easier. Good luck with trying to stop humans from multiplying, by mandatory structuring rules and regulations.

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