Hi my boyfriend and I had sex it will be 2 weeks on Sunday. The condom broke off inside me, but only he only precummed before we noticed it was off. It was the time I was ovulating too. I have been trying to check my cervix this last week and it goes from high soft partially open to firm low and closed.My breasts are tender when I woke up this morning, this past week also I have had low cramping in my abdominal, and also very tired. I was just wondering what all of this could mean. I also am feeling lightheaded and nauseated.

How do you know you was ovulating? Medical tests or been keeping a long term daily Basal Temp chart because you were having trouble conceiving... or a wild guess (Cell phone apps and online calendars qualify as wild guesses as those are notoriously inaccurate).


Its also FAR to soon to know as you left out the only important thing... are you late for your period yet?

You can't test until you are at least two weeks late as you will not get reliable results before then.


And by the way... tender breasts only mean your period is near, or even a little overdue... MOST women experience that every month... if you haven't before... you will at some point. Its common with the monthly hormone swings women experience. Considered one of the PMS symptoms, so is cramping.

Hi raaenca,

It could be due to pregnancy, it could be due to a period soon to start. Cervical position and feel can give you somewhat of an idea, but it is more helpful in getting an idea for possible ovulation than possible pregnancy.

Generally the high, soft, and open occurs with ovulation, where as the low and firm will occur after ovulation. At some point in early pregnancy, it will rise a bit and soften again. You'll really need to wait and see what happens when you would be expecting your period.

While I don't disagree with Doula, unless you have been properly trained, checking your cervix can be dangerous and introduce infection.

When is your period due? You will need to wait to see what happens when your period is due.