I met a guy online.
We have been texting/sexting/emailing/skyped/talking via phone for 3 months.
I am crazy about this guy, we share similar interests, he is handsome, intelligent, charming, funny... the list goes on.
Both his career and mine have been very busy until recently.
We finally had a date night planned. After having several one and two hour phone conversations, the day had finally came to meet.
I booked a hotel resort for an entire weekend, planning to meet Friday at 7pm.
Well, Thursday morning at 7am, I texted him "Good Morning"
Usually he is the one that initiates, but it was me this time :) we talk everyday
He replied, "You too babe"
I did not hear from him the rest of Thursday, or Friday. So Friday at 12 noon, I sent a simple text saying, Hey are we still meeting or have you chickened out? :)
We have both agreed the meeting is mainly for sex.
He didn't reply until 5pm stating he "had a life changing job opportunity" had to figure out how to quit his current job... never said if we were still on or not
Keep in mind, we live 1.5 hours away and the hotel was booked in his hometown. I had to "hang around" waiting on him to reply to let me know. I checked into the hotel.
I didn't want to ask about his job or get in too much of his business, although I was curious.
So at this point, I assumed he cancelled our weekend.
I sent him another text at 8pm asking, "Are we still meeting"? "I'd really like to see you, I completely understand if not"... NO REPLY for another hour. 9pm comes, he says, "I just pulled in my driveway, your finatic texting is unnattractive"
I was mad at this point... seriously? What the heck
He then says, " I am going to see my friend, when you lighten the mood in the hotel room, I will come see you and teach you how to make a man want to come see you."
I replied "Nope, sorry, you"
No other communicating took place after that between us. I went home.
Monday at 7pm, hurt & upset, and majorly confused and not hearing from him at all since that Friday, I texted him saying "You shouldn't play with someone's emotions." deciding I would move on and chalk this one up.
He replied instantly saying, "I agree, you pulled me in then pushed me away."
Then he goes on to say I was acting selfish and he had just found out his friend had been beaten to death and was trying to process that. I replied stating, "I am so sorry, I had no idea, you never said anything about it"
He hasn't replied since, neither have I.
ARE YOU KIDDING ME?
Do any of you believe this guy? I think he is lying to me. I wish I could just forget him, but I can't. I want the truth. Today is Wednesday and I haven't heard from him since. I have felt guilty, confused, angry, upset.. my whole world is upside down.
Any thoughts? I can't dare tell my close friends the details, they just think he stood me up... they don't know all the other crazy stuff. I have checked him out, he is real, not a sex offendor, not married... etc...
I am afraid if he is telling the truth, I may have lost him forever. I don't know what to do, I cannot bring myself to text him again and look like a fool.
