Originally Posted by
Jake2008
Blowing up, losing control, and angry confrontations without proof, is the sign of an insecure person.
He probably didn't want to add you to his Facebook, because he had a pretty good idea how jealous and insecure you were. Why risk the grief.
I suspect that had he offered you total access, you would have gone into orbit.
I have been married 36 years, and would never, ever had gotten this far without complete trust in my husband- and him in me. I've never gone through his phone, never touched his wallet, or gone searching for proof of anything.
What you have done is opened up a can of worms. Now you are convinced that he has something to confess, and probably won't let it go until you keep badgering him about someone on his 'friend's' list.
You are creating a wedge, where none need exist. You owe him an apology for totally and completely over reacting without merit, and he needs a promise that he is indeed, entitled to his privacy, and it is none of your concern who his friends are. He does not need your permission, nor does he need the third degree.
Keep it up, and he'll be gone.
