Yes my son has a very bad behavor problem at home and at school.:mad: and I don't no what else to do?:confused: I did all the disiplin I can do .when you try to talk to him he says your hurting his ears,he can be very meanto self and everyone around him .I really don't know what I should do!please someone give me some advise

What sorts of things does he do? Can you give a few examples of this behavior?

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Originally Posted by carie

yes my son has a very bad behavor problem at home and at school.:mad: and i dont no what else to do?:confused: i did all the disiplin i can do .when u try to talk to him he says your hurting his ears,he can be very meanto self and everyone around him .i really dont know what i should do!please someone give me some advise

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he hits others at school and at home he mouths off at school and at home very defiant

How old is he? Were there any major changes in your lives when this began? Divorce, break up, new home, new sibling, etc.. I ask because a large change that a child dislikes or is afraid of can cause him to act out this way. It could really be just about anything, I am simply alerting you to one possibility. Sometimes punishing behaviors doesn't always help them improve. I tried that with my daughter, who had been getting in trouble for disrupting her class often last year. Punishing her meant nothing to her. In the end, I had to make a reward chart and positively reinforce her good behavior. She gets a sticker for each thing on her chart that she completes, including keeping her hands to herself, using manners, and behaving in school. Each sticker is worth $0.05 and she works toward the cost of whatever toy she would like to have. It has helped to teach her to follow the rules, earn money, and save for items she desires. When she reaches the target amount we go to the store. It's simply another tool at your disposal, and it may or may not work for you. All I know is it did wonders in my house.