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I have a serious issue of inlaw interference and maltreatment , which has become so overwhelming for me that now I think taking a divorce is the best option for me . So that's why seeking your advice in this matter.I am married to my husband since two years and we have a daughter of 3 months now.
Things started soon after my marriage my mother inlaw interference my two sister inlaw interference even my father inlaw is the same. My husband is good with me only prob he is scared of his mother to tell her any truth on her face . He never takes my side never justifies my truth. Prob is that my motheinlaw always misbehaves with my parents, always blames them for things they never did. Keeps on psycologically torturing me by telling me your parents this your parents that. My parents tried for two whole years to deal with them with patience but nothng works. My parents kept on saying sorry to her for things they never did for my marriage sake. But now we realised that more we deal with them with patience more and more they thing that they can do anythng with us. I never raised a voice never said anythng, cried silently all this time. She wants to control everythng in my life now my child also. My husbands doesn't say a thing to her because she them pretends to be sick with high bp and all. I don't know what to do. I can't see my parents being misbehaved and disrespected. Also to tell you I come from india where they have no islamic knowledge its just mixed culture of hindus and muslims. I tried so many times to teach my husband islamic rights of a wife daughter inlaw , showed him many videos. He does understand everthng but the point is he can't confront his mother and I am suffering to such a point that this psycological torture is having an effect on my health. I get these anxiety attacks all the time. My hands are shivering all the time. I don't want my daughter to suffer because of all this . So please suggest me with the best possible solution.. plz find time to answer my email as I am dying ever moment.
Also to add that I stay overseas with my husband still my mother inlaw and sister inlaws interfere to such an extent on phone keeping on calling my husband and telling him lies about my parents and me.