Originally Posted by
joypulv
Two months ago you said you have been trying for 4+ years. We need to know which it is, months or years.
Months is too soon to start spending money on doctors.
Fertility testing is expensive, no matter what.
Your husband had a child, but what if it wasn't his? (Even small chance.) Or his sperm motility has gone down.
That's why there are so many factors for doctors to test for.
You can do research online for home ways for both of you to try to increase the chances of getting pregnant, and you can buy a special thermometer to see when you might be ovulating.