My husband and I are wanting to know how to get custody of my almost 17 year old brother who is mentally challenged who is living with my parents in another state. He was adopted by my parents and placed in our home at the age of 16 months but adopted at 4 years old by them. My mother has admitted to me they do not know if they can continue to care for him the way he needs. My mother has medical conditions and so does my father and he does work very long hours between noon and 5 am every day. My mother has also told me numerous times they can not find a school that will work with him or Dr's that will work with him cause they do not deal with his type of needs. My brother has told me numerous times he wants to move back to this state to be with me and my husband and according to my mother after they moved to another state my brother screamed sissy in his sleep for almost 6 months. We need to know what to do to get things going and if someone could help point us in the right direction it would be so great. I know us doing this will upset the family but we are only looking out for the concern of what he needs that he is not getting there.