My wife has been texting a man constantly at all hours of the day & night. Should I snoop?

It's an awkward one ,how do u know about this did she tell u or have u already been snooping ?

Do you know who it is? Have you just asked her why she is doing it/ Don;'t ask us,, ask her.

It appears to me (as someone who investigates matters just like this) that you already have been snooping.

Have you asked her? Communication is the key.

Do you try to get her attention back on you? Does she act distant to you? How are things between you and her?

Just noticed that this situation has been brewing in one form or another since 2011 - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/workpl...er-539768.html

At that time "Iwish" said it best (I think): "If it's not this 20 year old guy, it's going to be another guy. The point is, there are some problems in your marriage and you need to find out what they are and work on them."

Did you take all the advice, find out what the problems were and try to resolve them?

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Just noticed that this situation has been brewing in one form or another since 2011 - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/workpl...er-539768.html

At that time "Iwish" said it best (I think): "If it's not this 20 year old guy, it's going to be another guy. The point is, there are some problems in your marriage and you need to find out what they are and work on them."

Did you take all the advice, find out what the problems were and try to resolve them?

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Obviously it's been going on for some time, OR this is a new 20 year old... Hmmmm

Must be a lot of 20 year olds interested in older women in that Town...

Seriously... wonder if it's a college town?