Ask Me Help Desk - Get her to notice me

Get her to notice me

I act like a gentleman around her. I smell nice. I look my best but she doesn't notice me. What do I do? How can I talk to her alone to ask her out myself?

Oh I also forgot to mention her best friend is like always with her. You can't pry them apart.

How old are the two of you?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

How old are the two of you?

We will both turn 13 in July

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Originally Posted by Chicken4762

we will both turn 13 in july

What would you do if you ask her out? Maybe her parents don't allow her to date yet.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

What would you do if you ask her out? Maybe her parents don't allow her to date yet.

Nah Probbably not she dated another guylast year they broke up like after 2 months and as far as I'm concerned she's single and what would I do Iwould get an answer it just that I don't know how to get her to talk to me privatly

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Originally Posted by Chicken4762

I dont know how to get her to talk to me privatly

Certainly you can arrange something!

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Certainly you can arrange something!

But how That's why I posted on this forum I don't know how I can Arrange something One thing that hurts is that Im low on the popularity chart

Is there a second choice?

Talk with lots of girls, chubby and thin, cute and not so cute, tall and short -- get to know other kids so you don't have just one egg in your basket. Try to get inside their skin and understand where they are coming from. Make some new friends that way.

You are 12 years old. How about asking your mom if she will take you both to the mall?

Honestly, though, I think 12 is too young to be dating.

You don't have to pry them apart. Just ask to speak with her privately. If she won't then ask her out anyway.

If you do not know her well enough to talk to her, strange ID call her on her cell phone ?
Send her a text message, or ask to talk to her alone,

You don't need to date if you can not even ask her out.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

You don't have to pry them apart. Just ask to speak with her privately. If she won't then ask her out anyway.

Then shell be forced to say yes and then dump me later

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Originally Posted by J_9

You are 12 years old. How about asking your mom if she will take you both to the mall?

Honestly, though, I think 12 is too young to be dating.

Nah its probbably the right time it sets you up for life and gives you the expirence

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Is there a second choice?

Talk with lots of girls, chubby and thin, cute and not so cute, tall and short -- get to know other kids so you don't have just one egg in your basket. Try to get inside their skin and understand where they are coming from. Make some new friends that way.

I have but with her its just feels different I do talk to her but when she talks I just like forget what's going on around me its just weird The thing is I have popular friends but their friends think I'm annoying

No its not the right time to be dating because you haven't figured out how to date, or approach a female, and you are still afraid of being rejected and that's always a possibility.

At your age you will be dumped later, it's a matter of when, days weeks, or a month, it makes absolutely no difference. Wrap your head around it and enjoy it while it lasts. Or wait until you no longer fear being dumped.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

No its not the right time to be dating because you haven't figured out how to date, or approach a female, and you are still afraid of being rejected and that's always a possibility.

At your age you will be dumped later, its a matter of when, days weeks, or a month, it makes absolutely no difference. Wrap your head around it and enjoy it while it lasts. Or wait until you no longer fear being dumped.

Yo I've liked 5 girls they've all rejected me I know what it feels like I just move on in life like you always do

When you approach her ask her if the two of you can speak in private and if she refuses just come out and ask her if she wants to hang out sometimes.

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Originally Posted by Chicken4762

yo ive liked 5 girls theyve all rejected me i know what it feels like I just move on in life like you always do

This is no different. Maybe it seems that way because of your feelings, but its not.

I'm a around the same age as you and a teenage girl so I guess I'm good to answer this...
There's a boy I really like and there's clues he likes me but I'm always to nervous to do anything although I love him...
So if I wanted him to get my attention (which I do), then id probably think the best way would be just to ask her to town or somewhere but just say... ' Hey, I was wondering if you would meet me at *------------* on the *-------*** at **______* I just really need to talk to you alone... '
And then if she comes just simply say how you feel but don't pressure her and if she's nice then shell be kind and understanding and if she's mean then honestly yopur best without her anyway. But remember you ARE complementing her so it can't go that wrong.
Hope I helped...

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You are 12 years old. How about asking your mom if she will take you both to the mall?

Honestly, though, I think 12 is too young to be dating.

Nah its probbably the right time it sets you up for life and gives you the expirence

As a mother of 4 children, my youngest is your age, I have to disagree. 12 is too young to be dating.

12 year olds don't date. They use the word to think they are doing mature stuff, but they are just reacting to those hormones that they haven't figured out quite yet.

Thank you guys for all your help she rejected me there are plenty of fish in the sea you are awesome