Ever since I had my hysterectomy I lost my sex drive and my husband said Iam useless no sex libido his the one always initiate our sex, but Iam always tired at the end of the week after my work sex is the thing in my mind all I wanted to do most of the time is sleep, is there any treatment or remedy for this? I don't want our marriage destroy, please help and advise what to do, thank you

Your husband said you are useless, and that is nothing but a big, fat lie. You are not useless. You are a wonderful lady, who does not deserve this.
Have you considered seeing a doctor? Or one who might advise you on what to do, like a professional? I think your husband is very inconsiderate, does not respect you, and really doesn't care how you feel about this... all he wants is sex!