She moves away without telling me and we were together for 5 years its sounds harsh and the break up was when you break up wihtout no closure advive for me would be nice to work this out.

There is really never a "closure" on a break up, there is fighting, there is one party trying to get even with or hurt the other.

In many ways if the one partner moves away where you are not in contract all the time you may get over it better and sooner after the initial recovery of the loss

Im abit confused about the scenario of this post!
Maybe I can help with more info

I'm confused too. Have you talked to her at all? Did she say anything at all?

I'll admit, this is highly irregular but unfortunately it does happen and there's really nothing you can do other than to cut your losses, resign yourself to the fact that there will be no closure and move on with your life. Don't beat yourself up trying to figure out why ; it'll only make you all the more miserable and unhappy.

What age is she?
And what was going on before the breakup?

WOW, Do you know where she went? What happened before she left?

And your upset about this?

Again... WHY? ;) Just joking, trying to add a little humor! K? :)