My ex has attacked my wife throughout the 4 years of our marriage. She has accused both my wife and step-daughter of trying to suffocate my middle child. She has a friend in DCFS who has tried to help her with these allegations. I feel if I continue to pursue custody of my children I may lose the wife and children I have now. I have a lawyer and we're in the court process now. She hasn't let me see the kids in 21/2 years. My attorney doesn't push the issue and I do not have enough money to hire a new one, what do I do?