I guess I'm looking for moral support. I've married for five years and I love my wife. She is the only person that I have ever had sex with. We have been in a realationship since 1992. She is very attractive, even more so than when we first started dating. I don't know if the sex became too much of a routine, but I began having erection problems. At thirty I knew it was not normal. Doctors tell me that there is noting wrong with me physically. My penis just stopped working. Then I met this lady. I never approached her sexually, or anything like that, but we are friends. When ever she hugs me I get an erection like crazy. It is embarrassing. I love my wife, and I wish that I could have this type of response with her. I have never cheated on her, and it is driving me crazy. She thinks that I'm cheating because of the erection problems. What is wrong with me??