It's like this we broke up on July 6th it was apparently a one sided break up. Since then it was barely any contact other than an a random "hey" or "what you doing?" up until sept. Then she started to call an reveal all her issues an how her life wasn't how she expected so after actually hearing it I cave an comfort her because I honestly still love her. So we started texting more an she would call occasionally and I felt like things might have a chance at turning around. She calls me this past Sunday & Monday at 11pm we talk for a few she said "omg I love you so much....call me tomorrow I have the day off". She disappeared the entire week until today when she called excited about her surgery "sorry baby I havent been keeping contact....I'm off today just helping mom an laying around the house so call me" What the heck I've called an text but she hasn't responded on both occasions but I'm afraid I'll ruin the somewhat contact I do have with her if I come off as complaining. I know she has a life but I feel as if I make excuses as to why whe doesn't respond to me please help me!!

You're letting her play you and it's going to wind up hurting you more in the long run. Your best bet is to stop all communication and forget her.