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  • Oct 1, 2012, 12:56 AM
    Tiara21
    How to write an email to my Husband for divorce ?
    I have already written an email and he has not replied me and I want to write another by saying that he has 15 days time to send me the papers..
    Can anyone please tell me how to write it in a formal way ?
  • Oct 1, 2012, 02:03 AM
    joypulv
    Were the papers sent out the proper way? What country? There is no such thing as 'formal email' that I know of. And they wouldn't be sent back to you if he did sign them.
    Legal papers are sent certified mail, and often return receipt requested. At least in the US. Then you follow the divorce laws of your locale if he doesn't sign them or they can't be delivered as addressed, and you had had them sent to his last known address.
  • Oct 1, 2012, 02:08 AM
    Tiara21
    Well, there is no issue of what country I am..
    I just want to inform them that I want divorce
    And no we haven't sent any papers.. I just want to write an email to him
  • Oct 1, 2012, 02:34 AM
    joypulv
    He hasn't been sent any papers? How can he sign papers he hasn't received? I don't get what you are asking. If you are just starting this divorce, you can certainly email him 'I want a divorce' but you can't tell him to sign papers he doesn't have. You can say 'Go file for divorce and I will sign the papers,' but he can ignore you. I am totally confused by what you think any of this will do. This isn't how divorce is done - depending on where in the world you live.
  • Oct 1, 2012, 03:08 AM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tiara21 View Post
    Well, there is no issue of what country i am ..
    i just want to inform them that i want divorce
    and no we haven't sent any papers .. i just want to write an email to him


    Yes there is an issue of where you are, ANY question on law needs to include your general locale as laws vary by area.

    If you want a divorce, then you file for a divorce in your local court and send him a notice of the filing. That's generally the way it works.

    If you just want to write an e-mail to him. Then say:

    I want a divorce for the following reasons...


    Are you living apart that you can't tell him in person?
  • Oct 1, 2012, 05:38 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    He may ignore any email you send, that is not official notice.

    Next he is not required to send you divorce papers, he may ignore you all he wants.

    If you want the divorce, and he is not responding, you have to file in court and serve hm with divorce papers.

    Any use of email is just wasting your time.
  • Oct 1, 2012, 09:12 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tiara21 View Post
    Well, there is no issue of what country i am ..
    i just want to inform them that i want divorce
    and no we haven't sent any papers .. i just want to write an email to him


    Laws in various Countries vary. Laws from State to State, Province to Province vary.

    If you want a divorce, sue for divorce.

    Quite frankly, I don't even understand your question.

    There is no such thing anywhere I know about service (if that's what you are asking) by email. Nowhere.
  • Oct 2, 2012, 12:09 AM
    Tiara21
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by joypulv View Post
    He hasn't been sent any papers? How can he sign papers he hasn't received? I don't get what you are asking. If you are just starting this divorce, you can certainly email him 'I want a divorce' but you can't tell him to sign papers he doesn't have. You can say 'Go file for divorce and I will sign the papers,' but he can ignore you. I am totally confused by what you think any of this will do. This isn't how divorce is done - depending on where in the world you live.


    I didn't ask him yet to sign any papers.. Just want to tell him
  • Oct 2, 2012, 12:26 AM
    Tiara21
    Thank you all for your advice =)
    I'll just file in court and then send him papers.
  • Oct 2, 2012, 02:32 AM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tiara21 View Post
    Thank you all for your advice =)
    i'll just file in court and then send him papers.

    That's the way to do it.
  • Oct 2, 2012, 02:48 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Good luck, If you can find a way to afford one, please get an attorney.

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