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I had a question I'm married and when I was a child I was molested by both men and woman. And konow when I have sex with m,y husband I don't always like for him to touch me on my breast. I have never had an orgasm by anyone. And when I do have sex with me husband it feels like nothing I mean I can wach t.v. sing a song and write a book. I'ts like I am numbe no pleasure at all as if he is not even inside of me. My husband is not a small man about 8inches long on hard. I am I mentally not there? I have been in every position possible and still nothing numbe.

Along with eth physical scaring from abuse there is a suitcase load of emotional issue for most abused children/adults. You should talked to your doctor and seek a psychiatrist who specializes in sexual disfunction. You don't grow out of these issues on your own, you didn't cause them on your own either.

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I had a question I'm married and when I was a child I was molested by both men and woman. and konow when I have sex with m,y husband I don't always like for him to touch me on my breast. I have never had an orgasim by anyone. and when I do have sex with me husband it feels like nothing I mean I can wach t.v. sing a song and write a book. I'ts like I am numbe no pleasure at all as if he is not even inside of me. My husband is not a small man about 8inches long on hard. I am I mentally not there? I have been in every position possible and still nothing numbe.

Only my boyfriend has given me an orgasm in my life, internally that is, and I never thought that I was able to have an orgasm. I found out that if you just let yourself gofully trust him with your body and emotions when you are with him then maybe you can achieve that. I also was molested and raped, but he is your husband and surely he knows about what has happened to you, he wouldn't cross any boundries. For fact there is only one position that I can get an orgasm with him, and I tell him. Just let yourself go and be open about your sex with your husband there is a reason why you married him right?