So my ex girlfriend split up with me after 15 months of dating. I did not contact her for about 2-3 weeks. She contacted me asking how I was doing etc. she wanted to meet up and see me . We talked, she started to cry and told me that she misses me, and she misses our times we had together. That she still loves and cares about me. After that, her and I spoke on a moderate basis.. its weird, I know she doesn't want me out of her life, or else she wouldn't be doing the things that we do when we see each other. She told me she wanted to build a friendship. I said OK, but continued to give her space... Its confusing, because we speak a lot more now and hang out a lot more on a frequent basis. While hanging out with her, it feels as if were dating, like we hold hands, we kiss, we laugh. We actually had sex, but we both agreed that it was too soon to have a sexual relationship.. like I don't know she gives off signs as if she wants to maybe get back with me or build something more then a friendship? I feel like possible she's fighting her inner feelings... like she would glance at me and continue to stare, until I notice. When I ask "what'? with a smile, she would laugh, shake her head and say "nothing. We flirt with each other continuously when we see each other and hold hands while we go on walks etc.. I asked her if it was overwhelming that we hold hands and kiss. She said that it was a little, but her decisions and would feel more comfy if we didn't do it as often. She told me she likes when we kiss and she likes holding my hand.. .
How do I approach this? Do I straight up ask her.. do you want to be with me again?. I want to kind of speak to her about it and I'm seeing her tonight... I want to approach her, because she told me she wanted to be friends, but "friends" don't do or act the way we do when we see each other... just don't know what to say, without trying to make her feel rushed or overwhelmed do I just continue to just go with the flow, and not say anything?. so if anyone can give me good accurate advice asap would be much appreciated.