I just had a really bad break up, a week after I got a new promise ring. We were together for almost two years and then one day,3 days ago, he just flipped and said the rudest things and ended it. He blocked all of my number and I've been blocked off his Facebook. I just found out today that I'm pregnant. I cannot keep it or my dad will disown me if he finds out ( we've talked about it before) and I don't make enough money to do anything. I am so hung up over my ex even though I shouldn't be after how he treated me. I really need to tell him about this but I don't know what to say and how I could do it.

First what a mom or dad says, before you are pregnant, is not always the same as if and when it happens, Most likely you are young since fear of dad is a issue. You need to tell ex that you are pregnant, and of course after birth he will be forced to pay child support to help with the child.

Just tell everyone, let it all out and then deal from there, dealing with what could or may happen, never works

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

first what a mom or dad says, before you are pregnant, is not always the same as if and when it happens, Most likely you are young since fear of dad is a issue. you need to tell ex that you are pregnant, and of course after birth he will be forced to pay child support to help with the child.

Just tell everyone, let it all out and then deal from there, dealing with what could or may happen, never works

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True... your parents may be supportive. You really need to get in touch with your ex though. Make up your mind what you want first. Don't let him force you into anything you're not willing to do. If you want an abortion and you truly can't talk to your parents maybe talk to your ex's family or a trusted friend.

I told him today when I accidentally dialed his number at a friends house and not my moms (they are one number apart) and he asked who I was and hung up his phone on me.