My wife and I are currently getting divorced and have a 2 year old. We have been doing split custody for the past 4 months but she feels its too much shuffling for him. We basically swap every other day and swap weekends. Recently she told me that she thinks its to hard on him and wants me to forfeit a day each week. He is my life and I feel its only fair for him to spend equal time with both. He seems to favor me a little and even the caretaker has told me he gets a little more excited to see me then her and gets more upset when I drop him off. I know its not a compitition but I fear she's trying to block that and get more child support by cutting my time back. I live on the house he is familiar with and I have always been there. I take him to most of his Dr. Appt. I use to take and pick him up primarily from his caretaker when we were together and I have always been there for him. I fear that since she's the mother the court will favor her. My lawyer says it won't happen. I do live in the most liberal county in the state and she says the days of them favoring the mother are long gone. Losing him is my worst fear and will crush me if it happens. Do I stand a fighting chance?
