My husbands situation is very similar. He is also paying for three children, two whom are - out of college / in the military. His youngest just dropped out of college because she is 6 months pregnant and supposed to marry the father this summer. He is paying on all three still!! Just found out the EX moved to Arizona from New York over a year ago. Never told child support/ social services a thing about her moving. Trying to get child support reduced/ terminated. Hired a lawyer and had a hearing but the Judge said it was not in her Jurisdiction. How can that be if child support is court ordered in New York? My husband has been a good provider for his families ( his first and ours)!! I just don't understand why fathers get dumped on and the mothers can do no wrong!! There are some women out there that use/ abuse the system.