So this girl who I have known for 3 months made it obvious that she likes me by saying things like, if you asked me out I would seriously say yes! I always joked about it and laughed it off. We see each other 2-3 times a week because we help out at the same place. I asked her if she seriously liked me in that way. And she gave me an answer like this... "I don’t need to tell my future boyfriend that I like him, rather he should have the confidence to ask me out when he wants.... but I’m not ready for a relationship at the moment... maybe in a few months or so..."

So in the past I would look at this and say, when girls make an excuse then you should just walk away... but then the next day I told her I like her... the reason I did was because she opened up and I didn’t want her to feel as though I didn’t like her...

Anyway now she says let’s not ever talk about liking other people ever again... IM SO CONFUSED... I’m more than happy to wait a long time! She has a great personality and is beautiful... however I don’t want to be childish is sticking around only to find that she was never interested...

Should I start to ignore her a bit to see if she starts to chase? Or should I continue to act like I always have where I flirt around with her?

She may like you but to what degree, that is the question. She may like you but not enough for a relationship or maybe it is enough but she isn't ready yet, like she said.
Advice
- Be confident, as confidence is attractive.
- Be patient but don't wait too long. Your affection is not dispensible.
- Timing is important.

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Originally Posted by Bumpsandbruises

She may like you but to what degree, that is the question. She may like you but not enough for a relationship or maybe it is enough but she isn't ready yet, like she said.
Advice
- Be confident, as confidence is attractive.
- Be patient but don't wait too long. Your affection is not dispensible.
- Timing is important.

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You're right, I do lack confidence... ill work on it... ill see how it goes I guess... thanks

She needs courting, so date and talk on the phone. But don't let her walk over you son, and you avoid that by making sure her words and actions match. Before we go further, how old are you both?

Young guys fall easy for the flirty ones.