I broke up with my boyfriend 3 days ago. Since then, this best friend, who has a girlfriend has been chatting to me everyday. We have begun to trust each other and enjoy texting each other. Lately he told me that someone told him that 'the lesson they had learnt in life was to cheat at least once in your teenage years so you don't have the temptation to do it while your married' And now he wants me to be that person... What do I do?

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Originally Posted by HayGirl13

I broke up with my boyfriend 3 days ago. Since then, this best friend, who has a girlfriend has been chatting to me everyday. We have begun to trust each other and enjoy texting each other. Lately he told me that someone told him that 'the lesson they had learnt in life was to cheat at least once in your teenage years so you don't have the temptation to do it while your married' And now he wants me to be that person... What do i do?

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Don't be his labrat! He obviously knows it's wrong and he doesn't need to do it once to stop him doing it again, he just shouldn't do it! You need to ask him why he would hurt his girlfriend like that. You need to blow him off, he's using you.

Between himself and I it would be a very well kept secret. I don't mind doing it as id be using him as well

That saying is false, and is NOT true. Want to know why? Because teenagers shouldn't be having sexual relations in the first place.

Sooo, you broke up with your boyfriend three days ago, you're contemplating sleeping with this creep with the worst line I've ever heard, so who, my dear, is the guy your sleeping with in THIS post?
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...up-663426.html

Tell him great, and the main lesson in cheating is being caught, so as soon as you cheat with him you will tell his girlfriend so she can get the full experience of being cheated on, and he can get the full experince of being caught.

He is a player and wanting to use you for sex, nothing else, nothing more

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...se-658468.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...up-663426.html

You are involved with to many guys.

talaniman -I have to spread some rep, but that's what I'm saying too...

I know I am involved with too many guys and I am not sleeping with any of them!
My ex boyfriend (since 4 days ago)- and I are just friends
My ex boyfriends best friend who wants to cheat- I am not going to sleep with its wrong
The trouble maker- I only casually talk to as he lives in another state
The ex ex boyfriend- Thinks I'm slutting around and only using him for a rebound, but I'm not. I started talking to him before my last relationship was even over.

This is hard

Its not easy being a playa, and have you ever wondered what else you can do besides juggling guys?

I know it seems asif I'm a player, but I'm not

Then you sure love a lot of male attention. Maybe too much.

Think, how would you feel if your boyfriend had cheated on you? You'd proberly think the girl was a dirty little whore. Your probably only considering this to get back at your boyfriend, to prove to yourself your over him this guy will be your rebound. He's using you for sex. So don't drop to his levels and use him too.