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    HayGirl13 Posts: 12, Reputation: 1
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    May 25, 2012, 06:05 AM
    Forced Breakup
    Last year my boyfriend and I broke up. Neither of us wanted to, but we were forced to because his dad didn't approve of me as we were not the same nationality. The relationship was perfect. He was perfect. Iv'e never been as happy as I was with him, he is so respectful and treated me so well.
    The breakup was hard, we decided to loose complete contact with each other. After 8 months I decided to talk to him. We went out for dinner and caught up on everything in our lives. I decided to see him again, though this time was at his house. In the end we had sex. From that day we didn't talk for another 7 months. I have been speaking to him for the past week. There is a lot of sexual tension between us both and we both know it. I met up with him today for about 30 minutes. We just sat in his car and had a chat.. we did not kiss or anything. I want to have sex with him and he wants to have sex with me. He said he doesn't want a relationship... until later on.. What should I be thinking?
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    May 25, 2012, 06:27 AM
    You've got to slow down a bit, maybe think of why he doesn't want a relationship right now. Typically, but not always, guys don't want into relationships for different reasons that girls. He's probably interested in someone else, or doesn't want to be tied down to one girl because of a relationship, or even talk to him, see where his priorities are, if he is able to move onto a relationship soon and go from there.

    This is the third question I've noticed by you about relationship troubles. Maybe also take into consideration taking a break from relationships. Explore, meet new people try new things. Just a suggestion :)
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    May 25, 2012, 10:55 AM
    What you should be thinking is about what it is you want. A relationship he is not going to offer you, if you are just looking for sex, then continue talking to him. Or anyone else for that matter.
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    May 25, 2012, 03:54 PM
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...se-658468.html

    Which guy is he, the boyfriend, the bad boy, or an ex before them both? What happened to the two other guys anyway?? I mean it was only two weeks ago?

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