My fiancé of nearly 2 years seems to be going off me and having sex with me!
My fiancé of nearly 2 years has already started getting bored of either me or sex with me or even both! We use to have sex about 3-4 times a day and on some occasions 6 times! But since we got our own place about 6 months ago things have changed, I try to make a move but he pushes me away and never wants it, he says he's to tired or got a pain of some sort but he only ever says it about 5 minutes before we go to bed as if he only says it so I don't make a move on him. I've tried talking to him about it but he goes in a mood and calls me a sex addict or something. But I just say to him that I'm not, I just love him, and want him close to me, and he always says yes me too, but I'm too tired..
But nothing has changed. He still works the same hours, and does everything the same as what he did before we moved in together. I just don't understand, and sometimes I cry at night, when were lying in bed. And he is sleeping cause it hurts me so much, I'm not the most perfect looking girl in the world but he has looked at pictures of women on Facebook in just there bras or a corset or something and saved them on his phone, and it really hurts as there so much more pretty then me and such perfect bodies..
He also goes out on the weekend and I don't hear of him till the next day as he doesn't text me back or answer his phone or come home and then when he does come home he has a go at me and turns it round on me :( I don't have any friends so if I go out its always with him and he sometimes leaves me and goes off with his mates then comes back and thinks I've been off chatting with lads when I haven't! I've also mentioned to him to spice up our sex life as maybe he is bored (but I am in fact a bit bored of our sex when we have it) but he also goes in a mood then too, and won't talk about it or tell me things he likes in the bedroom, so I bought a sex book but he refuses to read it or do anything in it...
I don't work but I have a 3 year old and I pay for everything apart from his half of the rent, he never pays his way and when I ask him for it he says yeah, I'll give it to you, but then when pay day comes he just goes out and spends it :( I don't know what to do please someone help me :(