So it's not only me that has a 24 yr old who's taken over my 1st property that I've owned.He swears at me all the time is so controlling and I am too embarresed to have my friends over. It takes me 2 whole days to clean when I return from working away for a few weeks. He anoys the neighbours with very loud thumping music and has now taken over the new car I bought. It's just so horrible living in my own home. My dad said don't let him "take over'. But too late he has. I don't tell anyone in my family because they'll all blame me and will not have anything constructive to put forward. It's HELL!! And I am almost heading toward bankruptsy with paying all the exacturated bills from him consuming and living a very comfortable life - it's all on me.I'm in Sydney Australia, What could I do? If only I was confident enough to get a really big boyfriend to just be around - I'm sure he'd leave then.