Two years of accusations and 99% sure that my girlfriend has been cheating...
After 2 years of accusations and 99% surity that my girlfriend has been cheating it now turns out that she has been remotely monitoring my PC. I have heard from her that she does not lie/ lie about such things and that lying isn't important to her... when I bring these things up about lying she says I have taken her words out of context..
After a 6 month break we recently got back together and were planning for a family to move in together etc only the lies and apparent cheating have surfaced again with her even saying she wants to have a full time serious relationship but can only see me 1 evening per week.
Since this I have had a drink/drug induced 1 night stand which I admitted immediately; she went absolutely ballistic, belittling me calling me all the names under the sun and saying she never wants to see me anymore. Since this point I have had my PC hacked into which can only be her.
I love her with all my heart what I did was stupid and more as a result of the constant control/ insecurities she has, from word go she said she knew she has a mental problem/ issue and was going to do something about it which she has promised a few times and never delivered I have tried to call/text, email, no reply and or answer.
Should I put this episode behind me which is so hard as I really do love and care about this person but my daily routine now is wondering if the whole thing was just a lie?
Thank you for your answer but I fail to understand how someone would come back to me
Thank you for your answer but I fail to understand how someone would come back to me saying she wants to live with me have a family with me open a joint account if all the while she is inanother relationship? She came back and said that "if I takes doing a lie detector test to prove she is not a cheat she would" of course she never did... do you think like I'm neginning to think that she has/is mentally unstable?