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  • Nov 26, 2011, 11:05 AM
    greekman25
    Can I fight for custody for my little girl if I'm on sex offenders list
    I would like to fight for custody for my little girl as I'm on sex offenders list for life but want my little girl back
  • Nov 26, 2011, 11:12 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Why are you on sex offenders life,
    With that said, you can always fight for her, the issue is if you can win or not. Also what is the background of the other parent and will they fight you.

    But if you are a sex offender for urniation in public, or having sex at 17 with your teen age girl friend, that is different than being 40 and having sex with a 8 year old.
  • Nov 26, 2011, 11:49 AM
    cdad
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    Why are you on sex offenders life,
    With that said, you can always fight for her, the issue is if you can win or not. Also what is the background of the other parent and will they fight you.

    But if you are a sex offender for urniation in public, or having sex at 17 with your teen age girl friend, that is different than being 40 and having sex with a 8 year old.

    Agreed. Also it may be possible to get supervised visitation so long as the offence wasn't against your child.
  • Nov 26, 2011, 11:51 AM
    ScottGem
    In other words, we need more details to give you better advice. ANY question on law needs to include your general locale as laws vary by area. The level of sex offense is important. Also how old is the child and who currently has custody.

    But the answer to your question is yes you can fight, but whether you will win or not depends on the answers to our questions.
  • Nov 26, 2011, 02:00 PM
    greekman25
    I live in havering,the risk level on the sex offence is medium and my daughter is nearly 4 and she's in care. As the place of her living when she was to come home was un fit so now I'm in a loving environment with people that will love her as well as me now can you help
  • Nov 27, 2011, 10:13 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Where is Havering? What country?

    Why are you on the list?

    Those questions are important to an accurate answer.
  • Nov 27, 2011, 10:44 AM
    ScottGem
    The only Havering I found was a borough of London. So are you in the UK?

    Can you give us more details about your living status. What does "in care" mean? Is your daughter with a foster family? What does "shes in care. as the place of her livin when she was to come home was un fit" mean?

    Again, if you want our help, you need to flesh things out a bit. If you just post the bare minimum of info you are wasting your time as we will just have to keep asking more questions.
  • Nov 28, 2011, 07:24 AM
    greekman25
    Yh I live in the uk. Havering is a borough in london-well essex. I live with my family and my fiancé. She knows all about the past and why I'm on the offenders list. And so does her family. Their all sticking by me. She's with her adoptive parents but I want to fight for custody. My daughter was taken away because my ex girlfriend had a dirty house. She wouldn't tidy up or anything. And I'm on the list because I got accused of rape and indecent assault but when I was in court the girl who accused me of it was pulling all faces as if to say hahaha.
  • Nov 28, 2011, 10:41 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by greekman25 View Post
    yh i live in the uk. Havering is a borough in london-well essex. I live with my family and my fiance. She knows all about the past and why im on the offenders list. and so does her family. Their all sticking by me. Shes with her adoptive parents but i want to fight for custody. My daughter was taken away because my ex girlfriend had a dirty house. She wouldnt tidy up or anything. And im on the list because i got accused of rape and indecent assault but when i was in court the girl who accused me of it was pulling all faces as if to say hahaha.


    So did "hahaha" face manage to get you convicted? It would appear so.

    What are you allowed and not allowed to do? Have no contact with children? Supervised contact? Something else?

    IF your daughter has been legally adopted - and you say adoptive parents - no, you don't have a chance.
  • Nov 28, 2011, 11:30 AM
    ScottGem
    As noted, if the child has been adopted legally, you stand almost no chance of overturning the adoption. You will be lucky if you can even get some visitation rights.

    Adoption severs the bio parents rights to the child.

    This is why giving us full details are important. Had you mentioned the child was adopted initially, we would have told you this. You can contact a solicitor who will know more about local laws then we do, but I suspect you will be told the same thing.

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