Hi I like this chick, she pretty cool. Problem is I don't know whether she likes me, she has a boyfriend, and we get along great, is it bad if I would like them to break up

In one word, yes.

Think about it this way, if she would leave her boyfriend for you, who would she be willing to leave you for?

If she does break up with him on her own, give her time and space to let go of the previous relationship. If she doesn't take time to heal, it would increase the chances of you being a rebound and taking the blame for everything that went wrong in the past and the present.

If you can handle being her friend and nothing else, then enjoy the friendship. If you can't, back off and stay away from her until you can or she is free and available to see if she has feelings for you.

No - It's not wrong that you like her

But YES - It would be wrong to try and ruin someone's relationship based on some feelings you have towards one of them.

She's with this other guy for a reason hun.

X Dani

What if she just sees you as a friend, and wants nothing more? That's probably the case and its wrong to wish for something you know you shouldn't that can cause hurt to others.

OK, thanks wasent meaning as in I would like them to break up because of me stepping in, its just more along the lines of me wanting and hoping they will. I don't plan on trying to break them up. I like the girl a lot and have done, but given up on her and then gone back to likeing her, problem is she's really nice, so hard to tell if she likes me. By the way just for future reference, is their any possible way to get out of or not be put into the friend zone, cause that kind of sucks. I like her a lot the girl. But I would never break them up. But would it be OK, to kind of make her jelous, not in a rude or nasty way, but just to see whether I get the idea of her likeing me or not.

Thanks

Don't waste your time on a girl with a boyfriend, and NEVER play games to get her attention. Friend zone ain't a bad place as you seek romance and love elsewhere. Give someone else your attention, and you won't obsess and make a fool of yourself when intentions explode, and backfire.

I like these two girls, who are close friends, problem is I'm not sure which one I like more, one has a boyfriend. Suggestions

First, I suppose you should decide which you like more?

If you prefer the girl who is already in a relationship, then steer clear.

Don't just 'settle' for the single girl if you prefer the other, as not only is this unfair on her, but untimately you could end up ruining their friendship.

X Dani

Ka2na... mind it, not only two there are many - yeah many - girls around, girls abound, I would rathe say.. but at this juncture, you might be in friendship with only TWO.

Now, nothing is unfair in love and war... and so you first choose, whom you like more, out of two. But if the 'other' one is too deeply involved and you are sure about that (there are levels of depth in frenship, remember) their intimate relationship, consider the 'remainder' and also the others, who may fall in your friendship sooner or later. Life is a flowing river and there is never any stoppage... so do not say that you have to choose between these two only!

So... I like these two girls, their almost inseprerable. I only met the friend just recently, they are a real cool, and nice, I like them both equally, so I was wondering would it be OK to take them both out on a date just once, just to see how it would go and make my own judgement, is that OK, or bad, keeping in mind, one of them has a boyfriend too.

Were you not satisfied with the answers you previously received on this question?

Sorry to say but I doubt you'll get many people thinking it's appropriate to go after the girl that's already taken.

And it sounds to me like you don't like the other enough to take her seriously. Why date her when you prefer the other? That would be using her.

I'd say forget them both, and wait for someone new.

X Dani

Check out this thread for insights: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ip-463250.html

I suggest you pick one girl and stick with her. Don't chase both at the same time. But you might not want to consider someone who is already taken.

You must think you are a player, or something? What if the other girl THINKS you are wanting to be with her friend who has a boyfriend? Then you are toast with them both!

How old are you?

Hey, I really like a girl. She has a boy friend. And I am trying to forget about her and get over her. I like her mate as well, which may be a problem, but I can't get over her. It kind of sucks. Solutions on how to get over her.

You leave them alone, and focus on other things, people, and activities.

I don't know what's wrong with it. It's just a girl. What'll happen? He'll get mad?