How to fix insecurities in a relationship?
I have been dating my boyfriend or about two months now. We just recently became Facebook friends (as in the last week). He never changed his relationship status on FB so then I never changed mine. He talks to his ex girlfriend a lot more then he talks to me. He texts her in front of me but I think he think I am stupid because he says oh I'm talking to a friend although he can be completely engrossed in that conversation. For example, the other night I was sitting on his bed in tank top with boy shorts and he blatantly ignored me to talk to her. It really hurt. Also, when we are in public he may hold my hand but if any of his friends or past acquaintances come up he immediately stops holding my hand, stands about a foot away from me, and then doesn't introduce me. I often wonder if anyone knows we are dating or if in fact he is still with his ex and he is just using me since she does live nearly 6 hours away. On top of it all, I was in a few abusive relationship; he knows that I have been cheated on several times and that I am still fairly insecure about most everything. What am I doing wrong here? How can I fix this?