I like this one girl and when we hang out we're holding hands we buy ice cream and we share our ice cream with each other but she has a boyfriend and she says she loves him, he knows about me and he gets jealous and doesn't want her to hang out with me, I told her I don't want to mess up her relationship but she says she wants to spend time with me. I want to tell her that we shouldn't talk for a while cause she's my friend and I want her to be happy and I don't want her relationship to go bad because of me, I don't know if I should?

If you were her boyfriend what would you do if you found out she was holding hands and sharing ice cream with some dude?

Leave her alone, she is no friend but she is a user. She uses you for whatever reason, and YOU are letting her. Instead of going along with her program, leave her alone, and get a better program.

Some chick you have as a friend guy, because she loves a guy but spends time with you, and holding hands ain't friends. Don't get played!

So this happened with me.. except I was the girl in this place. I have a wondderful boyfriend who I care so much about! But I wanted to go out and have fun with my few guy friends. I took things a little too far once and sat on my one guy friends lap. My boyfriends loyal friend told him and it started majjor ****. I honestly think you should stay under the raydar for awhile because a jealous boyfriend can be a jerk and you don't want to ruin anything..

Thanks for both responses they're great. I am going to leave her alone. I'm going to do it next time I see her cause I rather do it in person then by text or by a phone call.

Tell her that you cannot be just a "friend", filling whatever void the other guy leaves behind. Find yourself a girl of your own. Good luck to you.

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But I strongly suggest that you stop holding hands because it sounds a lot like cheating to me and you don't want to be the guy she cheats with.

Thanks you made it way easier for me to decide now. I really appreciate everything bro.