Suggestions on immediately starting No Contact with Ex vs waiting?
Ok we are not really exes, but we have been friends with benefits for a year and a half... I met her through my sister, she is 21 and I am 25. At first it was only a physical thing, and we began getting really close till the point she told me she loved me, and after a while I began to feel the say way. Out of the blue though, she told me she wanted to be just friends and nothing else, but she still loves me, and may want something one day... I immediately told her that I respect her wishes, and think it's a good idea since nobody should date somebody that they are not comfortable with... Basically I began no contact from day 1 instead of the begging crap... After about a week, she face booked me and ask did I want to go to the movies with her and her cousin... I responded with quick with no thanks, I made plans to hang out with friends already... and left it at that, am I on a good track? Even though we were not official, should this effect her? After all, we were close, talked all the time, had lots of sex... and instead of trying to working things out for weeks or months, I left her alone from day one... I am working on myself, but I can't help but hope she will come around.
No Contact vs. Limited Contact, please help!
The girl I have been dating for like the last year, has been sending me text every now and then, saying Hi, or do you want to hang out, etc... I have been extremely dry or giving one word answers, I don't even text back right away... THe other day she got mad and said if I never want to talk to her again she understands, and wishes me the best... About 5 hours later, I laughed at her in a text and called her a drama queen, saying that it is not like I'm by my phone 24.7 and left it like that... In case you wonder why I respond, I do so because if I ignore her completely, she will think I mad, but I am literally acting like I don't care that it didn't work, and never initiate any conversation... even though I do want her back... So if Im not emotional in the text, and ignore some of them, and am always giving 1 word answers, would this work in getting her back? Im literally not showing interest at all.