Probation officer is not allowing a transfer to another county for work
I live in orange county my husband and I were both put onto probation last year in feb. 2010. We have finished everything asked of us from probation and have been doing great. We need to move to Riverside because I cannot find any work and my husbands hours just got extremely cut and we have no idea how were going to afford rent this month. We also have a 2 year old daughter. I have told my probation officer that I have a full time job waiting for me in another county, which is way to far to drive to every day from orange county and we found apartments that we will be able to afford. She told us we could not transfer unless I told my great grandmother who is 93 about my charges and if she talked with her about my charges because my job is suppose to be her personal aide doing her cleaning, cooking, and errands. Is it legal for her to ask me of that for a transfer? I don't want my grandmother to have a heart attack but at the same time I won't have a place to live. I also have no violent record, and have never had any problems with probation. We just asked her about it and she said she didn't care... I'm very very confused.
Comment on twinkiedooter's post
Well I'm not living with my grandmother I'm just her aide for about 4-6 hours throughout the day. And she told my husband and I that we are not allowed to leave this county which is confusing cause we won't have anywhere to live if we don't move...
Comment on Fr_Chuck's post
She told us today that we were not allowed to leave. And I was wondering isn't it up to the employer whether they wish to know about an employees background? And also what if my grandma doesn't want to talk with her? We are on formal probation so they want to be able to come over and check our home. If we are in another county we will have to switch our probation officer to the next county and they said they would not allow us to do so. This is why I was wondering is there a way around going through them? Could I go to court and get a public defender and have them order for us to be allowed to move considering all we want to do is provide for our child?