Is his Ex wife's Son relevant to new marriage?
Hi, We married Feb last year 2010.His Ex wife had an 8 month old when they married and they had a daughter togetherthey were married for 2 yrs .When their daughter was one yr old.They divorced.Now, the Ex wife's son is 16 and their daughter is 13.when I met my husband his daughter was mean to me and my son from a previous marriage is 8 yrs old.I have forgiven the my step daughter and building up on our relationship.His ex wife's son has father who doenst want to see him due to his mood behaviour's.I had accepted the boy to come visit so my son can have someone to play with but I noticed he hits by son, crushes his toys and this has terrifed me.My husband has no control of the boy when he is in his moods and his mother will not have him checked by a psych doctor.(possble bipolar behaviour).I am afraid every summer as he is coming without my approval and my husband is adamant on him coming wherther I agree or not.
I am stuck!!
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Thank you for response, this boy has no friends except his computer games,we can not sign him up for any programmes during summer because my husband does not guardianship on him.Most visits are pushed by his mother and neither my husband or his ex wife has the odesity to ask me if I mind him coming over.I love this man but this is beginning to affect my feelings for him.we have been married for a year now and we have a 5 month baby together.