Im a father who has a sevenyear old son that's been under my care for the last 4 1/2 years. He barely see his mom and no matter how many times I go too friend of the court about the child support they are still making me pay. None of it is owed to the state and I even got insurance in my name for him from the state. What can I do to stop the child support. Its like I'm giving her the money that's needed to take care of him but he stay with me and don't see her.