I'm in a relationship for about 8yrs but I have fallen in love with another guy.
I have been in a relationship for 8years now, but the guy is no longer caring we are far from each other,he no longer shows concern like before. I have found a new love who defines the full meaning of love, I am confused I still love the first guy I don't know what to do he has changed and now shows concerns about me.
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Are all those exclamation points really necessary? I guess I didn't make it clear enough, I didn't really have any advice I wish I knew the answer myself. When you've done all the obvious things and nothing changes, you can't let go and you can't stay the same, you have to learn to live with one thing or the other. It's not as easy as so many of you have made it out to be, serious problems are rarely ever black and white that's what makes them problems. I just didn't appreciate all the unwarranted judgment she was receiving from people who have never actually been in her situation. I say do what you're comfortable with, do what makes you happy and if it isn't hurting anyone else that's fine, but love yourself first. I see a degree of selfishness as a virtue that many women lack while their husbands have no problem being selfish. My advice is, love yourself first.