My father in law passed away Sept. 27th @ the age of 60 with cancer. On Sept. 30th we found my mother in law passed away in her sleep. She was only 58. She had told me a year or 2 earlier (while we were not getting along) that she had congestive heart failure. I thought @ the time she was trying to get sympathy out of me & didn't take it a lot of seriousness. She had been known to do that sort of thing. The police asked if she had any health problems & I told them she had told me this & they wrote it off this was the cause of death. She had not told any of her 3 children or 7 brothers & sisters which leads me to believe still that it might not have been true. It is so weird with her gone & I am having a really hard time letting go because I can stop wondering why. I can't get closure. I think about her all the time & always come back to the why of it all. How can I find closure & stop dwelling on why she was taken so soon? I wish the family would have had an autopsy done. I feel like I will never stop feeling like this.