I think my son was molested while he was in Foster Care...
Unfortunately, my 3 boys were put in a Foster Home because my Husband and I were incarcerated. And, we have no family. And, now there is reason to believe that my Youngest was molested by another kid - well he's 18 that lived at the same foster home. Back, in August my boys were home for a Visit. And, I kept noticing my youngest doing stuff that wasn't usual. He had became obsessed with touching my breast and butt. And, I remember times before that. His behavior was just weird. And, I know my sons. And, something just felt weird. Well, we were swimming that day. And he had to go to the bathroom. After he went I put his Sunscreen back on him and he touched my breast. And, I explained to him that it was inappropriate for him to do that. And, it got me thinking. I started asking him questions. I asked him has anyone ever touch you down there. And he said yes. Then he mention the boys name. I know kids lie. But, he is 4 years old. And, I believe him. And, then he said some other stuff. But, soon stop because he said he was going to get in trouble. I couldn't believe it. I called my husband over and told him what was going on.
After they went home late that day we decided to call the Foster Mom. We were kind of scared because the state has our Children and we didn't want anything to happen in return - I mean I didn't want them to think we were doing this to get our Children back. We were so confused. Because our worst nightmare just came to life. We told the Foster Mom exactly what our Son told us. And, she said that they are never alone together. He's either at work or school. We had a long discussion. And, she went on and on that nothing like that ever happened. And, we trusted her. She also said that from now on she would make sure that they were never left alone.
A month went by. And then they finally came home. After a few months of being home I keep noticing strange behavior. My son obsessing over touching his older brothers. Behavior that is not normal. And, I know my Son. I know all three of my sons. I have been a Mom for 10 years. And even though my Husband and I were involved in something criminal ( not drugs, violence, etc... ) We are dam good parents.
One of the programs the state offer us is In Home therapy. And,a lady comes out to our Home weekly to help with any behavior or concerns we are dealing with . And, I decided to bring up what happen to our Little one. There is no way I could let this go on. Because if it did happen - I can get my son help. I told her everything. And, she asked me a very important question. Did you ask your Son what time of the day did this happened? Later, on that day when my son and I were playing I asked him when did him and "John Doe" play? Did he come into your room at night time after everyone was asleep? And, he said yes. He would play on his bed with him - A f***** 18 year old - I died after hearing that, Why would my son make that up. I called the lady that comes to our house and she passed it onto her supervisor. Since then I have talk to her and they have contacted the police. And, they are going to set up forensic testing for my son.
Im so scared for my son. Im an emotional train wreck. My son adored this creep. He always went on how he let him play with his Nintendo ds. He was always polite to me. But that's what most molesters are like. They are so nice and sweet. That's how they get their victims. Makes me sick.
One of the tings that keeps eating me alive is that the Foster Mom should have reported what my Husband and I said. Because just in case this was brought up she would've covered her a**.
I have no idea what to do? Should I get a lawyer? Please... if you have any advice. I greatly appreciated it!
