Ask Me Help Desk

Ask Me Help Desk (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forum.php)
-   Dating (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forumdisplay.php?f=374)
-   -   I like this guy but he has a girlfriend (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/showthread.php?t=549528)

  • Jan 30, 2011, 07:26 PM
    teamodulce
    I like this guy but he has a girlfriend
    A while ago I started working at this place and he was the first person I noticed from his smile and ever since then we started getting close and then he told me that he has a girl friend. So I didn't tell him that I liked him because I didn't want to mess anything up. But recently I think that he is maybe liking me. And one of the guys we work with called us out on it saying that we are going to end up together from the way how we act. I don't know what to do because I really like him and I'm supportive of him when he talks to me about the problems that him and his girlfriend have. Its just really confusing :/ I don't know what I should do
  • Jan 30, 2011, 07:51 PM
    SarahMtnSmile
    Savor the friendship. If you really like this guy, and you are already decent friends with him, why not keep it that way for a while? Dating can ruin friendships, and if he already has a girlfriend, then what's the point of chasing after him now? Wait and see what happens with him and her, and if that doesn't work out, and you still like him, then maybe you could give dating a shot. Just be prepared for the consequences. But let him be for now, or you might scare him off, and lose him completely.
  • Jan 30, 2011, 08:22 PM
    talaniman

    You stay friends, and co workers, and date others, and not get to involved with someone that's with someone else. Don't cross that line.
  • Feb 1, 2011, 01:34 PM
    dianne_betsy
    We have the same issue. We both admitted we like each other. We chat, we talk, we text, we are both sweet and so open about what we feel, but of course I cannot be just the other girl. I tried to stop chatting and texting him. I'm doing all that I can to avoid him. But were still friends at least. Let it go dear, if by the time he'll comeback with no other girl anymore and yer still available and still like him then I guess you are both lucky. :)i tell you if you continue to be intouch with him and his actions and words are so good for you to feel that he like you? You will just keep on hoping. What if he'll realized hye's no longer doing he right thing and decided to stop it? How would you feel, right? So before you get to the point of not just liking him and yer already falling in love with him cut it off as early as now. Be mindful of the situation. ♥
  • Feb 1, 2011, 01:54 PM
    I wish

    Check out this guideline for some insights: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ip-463250.html

  • All times are GMT -7. The time now is 05:17 AM.