My ex and I broke up in May. Since then we have both been talking everyday on skype or the phone. For a few months I returned home from working abroad where she lives. WE still spoke a lot and she wanted to see what would happen when I got back. This was in October and since then everything has been going good. We have been on several dinner dates together a week, calling everyday, going on bike rides together, hanging with her friends and sister. Good times. We didn't get physical but have been talking about it and have nice romantic hugs and kiss on the lips. I can be patient.
I occasionally pressed her to see if we could make a go of this, she always replied that she was unsure that she wanted a relationship and we should just keep doing what we were doing and it should happen naturally. We originally broke up because we were having a lot of arguments for a month or so. I since realise how much I love her and this time around we haven't argued once.
On Monday I pushed for an answer and told her that other girls are asking me out ( which is true ) she said she doesn't want a relationship with anyone right now. She is stressed with work and just wants to chill at home after work and not have the stress of a boyfriend. She said there is no one else in her life and I believe her and that if she wanted a boyfriend it would be me.
Now I am confused about what to do. We haven't spoken since that call. Do I give up and move on and just not contact her to heal, or give her a month to chill out, miss me and try again? Or try and get back to where we were with dating and such, but without pressurising her. I do love her loads and it seems a shame to give up but also it is hard to date her and not know if it will work out.
Thanks for your time and I am interested to hear your thoughts