Did I mess up by contacting?
Great site. Need your opinions.
My girlfriend of 6 months dumped me for being selfish and pushing her too much. She is clinically depressed and has severe anxiety. She said I was pushing her and making her feel worse when she was going through a time when she wanted to be alone. She has severe mood swings. She went to the doctor today and I broke down and called to see if the tests were okay. A few minutes later she texted me and said everything was fine but she needs a CT scan. I said I was happy everything was okay and said good luck on CT and asked when it was and said take care cause I had to get back to studying. She said the time when she has to go and asked me what I was studying for. I told her and she said she believes in me and that I will do fine. That was it. No calls. She won't call me but she did return my text so I don't know if that was a good thing. The first couple days I called and texted a few times cause I didn't know what the hell her problem was. But then I stopped. Is this a positive sign that she talked? I am moving on regardless but did I break the cardinal rule by contacting during the break up? I just did it to show her I am not really selfish (I truly am not, I just didn't know she was clinically depressed). I feel better and am in peace with myself cause I showed I cared and I do care. But was this unforgivable? Anyone see a second chance? Thanks.
