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Your problems with this fellow are starting to add up. Whats really going on with this relationship, or are you that new to each other?
I know you have been together a year and a half, but how long have you been living together? This sounds like you are both new to this and have a lot of real honest talking to do as I think the honeymoon has been over, and now you are seeing things you don't like, or don't understand.
Not only are communications important but trust, and being able to set boundaries of good behavior for you both. That takes time and work.